Would Tell Someone That You Loved Them?

[Scars]

If any of you loved someone would you tell them?

[Liengod]

You're 15, she'd dump you in a week if some extremely hot guy liked her. That is if she actually went out with you. You don't fall in love at 15. :]

[Scars]

You're 15, she'd dump you in a week if some extremely hot guy liked her. That is if she actually went out with you. You don't fall in love at 15. :]

Not everyone ages the same way. Yes I m 15 but that does mean that I think like a 15 year. I know that love is nothing more than a thought, one makes him/herself fall in love by one's own subconscience. I knew this but was to weak to fight it. The still fact that I m 15 has nothing to do with the fact that I loved. But you are right, I shouldn't love.

[Liengod]

You lusted, you think you loved her. You'd never actually spend the rest of your life with them, but meh. My opinion on love is different than some people's.

[Kunoichi no Kiri]

Um... what people expirencing these feelings for the first time don't realize is that life isn't the movies - when you've fallen for someone, telling him or her that you love them isn't going to automatically earn you a relationship, it's just going to creep them out.

What you have to do, before expressing love openly, is build a romantic relationship and make sure the feeling is at least somewhat mutual first.

There are WAY too many songs called "Don't Say You Love Me" or sthing similar.

[Sasume]

oh love um... if your not ready for pain and heart brake dont fall in love... wait thats stupid you can't stop love from hapening ..but your still only 15... wait i guess...but your still only a teenager so your hormones are all mix up...

[skippy]

Not everyone ages the same way. Yes I m 15 but that does mean that I think like a 15 year. I know that love is nothing more than a thought, one makes him/herself fall in love by one's own subconscience. I knew this but was to weak to fight it. The still fact that I m 15 has nothing to do with the fact that I loved. But you are right, I shouldn't love.
Sigh, don't get him wrong. I don't think Atomsk said that you shouldn't love he said that as a 15 year old you *can't* love, at least not in the same sense that adults do. I thought I was in love when I was 15 too...
It's not a weakness to love anyway. Also saying that you 'love' someone out of the blue is generally not a good idea, like KnK said you need to build a relationship first. Be a friend, ask her out casually sometime and stuff of course now it might be a bit late since you already e-mailed her saying that you loved her so....lucky if she responds otherwise learn from it and move on.

[Shroomsday]

To answer your question, yes I would, life's too short and all that. However I can imagine some circumstances I might not, like if she's already seeing someone else (in which case I'm not sure I'd ever be in the position to fall in love with her). I agree with KnK that I've always seen it as a step in a relationship rather than an opening line.

You're angsting it up quite a bit that I've seen in your posts. I won't tell you to drag yourself out of it right away, but you'll have to eventually. I won't try and reason that you weren't in love either and that it was more likely infactuation and a strong like. But if you love someone, you'll always want what's best for them inevitably.

However, you shouldn't (and don't really) believe that you've had it and will never/shouldn't love. Maybe if you learned to like the guy you are, you'll see why other people could do the same. But if you don't give yourself a chance, people will be too wrapped up with their own problems to tackle yours as well.

[Scars]

Hmmm, I see maybe I was acting childish ... maybe it wasn't meant to be but my own problem isn't the point of this thread, its more of you all would do not that I don't appreciate what you all are saying

[Hatsune Miku]

Nope. I'm too shy to tell someone I love them.

[Scars]

To answer your question, yes I would, life's too short and all that. However I can imagine some circumstances I might not, like if she's already seeing someone else (in which case I'm not sure I'd ever be in the position to fall in love with her). I agree with KnK that I've always seen it as a step in a relationship rather than an opening line.

You're angsting it up quite a bit that I've seen in your posts. I won't tell you to drag yourself out of it right away, but you'll have to eventually. I won't try and reason that you weren't in love either and that it was more likely infactuation and a strong like. But if you love someone, you'll always want what's best for them inevitably.

However, you shouldn't (and don't really) believe that you've had it and will never/shouldn't love. Maybe if you learned to like the guy you are, you'll see why other people could do the same. But if you don't give yourself a chance, people will be too wrapped up with their own problems to tackle yours as well.

In your post you mention that you seen my other post. Well when I talk about bad memories I don't only mean this. I have much worst memories than this and thats mainly what I think back on, I just wanted some help with this one from other people. I appreciate your post as well as everyone else. Thanks

[Shroomsday]

In your post you mention that you seen my other post. Well when I talk about bad memories I don't only mean this. I have much worst memories than this and thats mainly what I think back on, I just wanted some help with this one from other people. I appreciate your post as well as everyone else. Thanks

If you've had a tough past then you should think that logically, the best thing to do is to move on and not dwell on it. You've already learnt from some mistakes undoubtably and you'll make more, but you'll still be happier for it. Someone who gives up won't get anywhere as things rarely come to you and if they did they wouldn't be anywhere near as rewarding.

Anyone'll agree though that you're not in a unique position at your age, it just depends how you handle it from here.

[Sasume]

Sigh, don't get him wrong. I don't think Atomsk said that you shouldn't love he said that as a 15 year old you *can't* love, at least not in the same sense that adults do. I thought I was in love when I was 15 too...
It's not a weakness to love anyway. Also saying that you 'love' someone out of the blue is generally not a good idea, like KnK said you need to build a relationship first. Be a friend, ask her out casually sometime and stuff of course now it might be a bit late since you already e-mailed her saying that you loved her so....lucky if she responds otherwise learn from it and move on.

love is not a weakness only if your weak in side it is even so choose to make it your strength and your 18 right hes 15 your only 3 years apart (kids) if you love some one you should tell them

[Scars]

If you've had a tough past then you should think that logically, the best thing to do is to move on and not dwell on it. You've already learnt from some mistakes undoubtably and you'll make more, but you'll still be happier for it. Someone who gives up won't get anywhere as things rarely come to you and if they did they wouldn't be anywhere near as rewarding.

Anyone'll agree though that you're not in a unique position at your age, it just depends how you handle it from here.

Your right I have learned from those mistakes but this was the only one that ever involved my feelings towards someone anyway, I get over it eventually I always do, I guess I got ahead of themselve with the whole love thing. Oh well, we all make mistakes I suppose.

[Hangatýr]

Yup, would and have.

[Oujisama]

No im not interested in short term relationships at the moment, only after ive set my life goals straight. I chose not to date at younger ages, it just completely gets in your way, and eats away at your valuable school time and money. If your under 18, dont date.

[metalanime]

its not always about what or how you think, cause even if you really do, or think that you are different from a normal 15 year old, like most 15 year olds tend to think, she wouldnt be in the situation to take you seriously anyway.

Most people your age tend to think they have already grown up beyond thier years because the realized they are more serious than they were before puberty and what not, problem is, its not your attitude and taste that constitutes whether you have mentally developed, its the type of experience you have generally speaking. At 15 its normal to kind of want to seem older or more mature, then once your like 20 or so, everything starts to fall into place and you see things much more clearly, as long as your not one of those fuck ups who cares about nothing but partying.

Either way, establishing a relationship is fine, as long as you just keep things going at a normal pace, and 3 years later, if you still feel the same as you do now and have been involved after all that time, then you can more or less safely say that.

That being said, fuck yeah, Id just jump right out and say it out of nowhere.

[Scars]

No im not interested in short term relationships at the moment, only after ive set my life goals straight. I chose not to date at younger ages, it just completely gets in your way, and eats away at your valuable school time and money. If your under 18, dont date.

Looks likes you got your priorities in the right place. I guess your right, your logic makes more sense than the one I tried. I suppose someone of your "100 years" of life must have enough experience and wisdom to be correct.

[Oujisama]

Looks likes you got your priorities in the right place. I guess your right, your logic makes more sense than the one I tried. I suppose someone of your "100 years" of life must have enough experience and wisdom to be correct.
Was that sarcasm?

[Scars]

its not always about what or how you think, cause even if you really do, or think that you are different from a normal 15 year old, like most 15 year olds tend to think, she wouldnt be in the situation to take you seriously anyway.

Most people your age tend to think they have already grown up beyond thier years because the realized they are more serious than they were before puberty and what not, problem is, its not your attitude and taste that constitutes whether you have mentally developed, its the type of experience you have generally speaking. At 15 its normal to kind of want to seem older or more mature, then once your like 20 or so, everything starts to fall into place and you see things much more clearly, as long as your not one of those fuck ups who cares about nothing but partying.

Either way, establishing a relationship is fine, as long as you just keep things going at a normal pace, and 3 years later, if you still feel the same as you do now and have been involved after all that time, then you can more or less safely say that.

That being said, fuck yeah, Id just jump right out and say it out of nowhere.

I guess I did get carried away, at least this thread is helping me come to terms with myself. I suppose I was correct to make this thread, I know many of people in these forums are older than me so I figured it would be a great place to find an answer. Since all of you are posting similarity post I see now that I wasn't foolish, out of place yes but not foolish.

[Scars]

Was that sarcasm?

The part of your 100 yrs wasn't sarcasm, I was just trying to be funny sorry if it bothered you, I appreciate your post and wasn't trying to make fun of you I understand what you posted and I m glad that you posted it

[h4m34]

im too shy to say it

[mike_william]

Love is when your girlfriend can admit to you that the car stinks because she has diarrhea and she needs you to pull over and find her a clean bathroom asap, and yet you are still in the mood for sexing her up immedietely afterwards. At least I think that is what love is. Maybe I'm a bit off, but I think I'm at least close.

[Maffy the Love Doctor]

i thought i was in love with one girl in 5th grade but that was just a silly crush. i realized what love felt like when i fell in love with a girl when i was 15. i knew it was love cuz i never ever felt that way about someone else. i'm good with women and relationships and all of that stuff, but when i was around this girl, i was just so nervous and i could never say the right things. and since i was so shy to talk to her, we never really had much of a relationship. if i wasn't so shy, i could have seen us together for sure. i wanted to tell her how i felt but i never did. then she moved and i told her a while later how i used to love her and we became friends afterwards (just friends since she lives pretty far away). i loved that girl for over a year and i really regret not trying to talk to her more and telling her earlier.

[Zhongda]

iam at a coffe shop with ma cuz right now and i asked him if he would.. he said no cause he tried it before.
But i would ..we only live once.. might as well try everything b4 we rot 6 feet under.. nothin to lose really..

[ezxx]

I have but it isn't exactly the love you are speaking of.

[Shunsui]

You're 15, she'd dump you in a week if some extremely hot guy liked her. That is if she actually went out with you. You don't fall in love at 15. :]
Hahahahahahahahahaha.

Bullshit! :O

[Liengod]

Hahahahahahahahahaha.

Bullshit! :O

Everyone has their own opinion. :amuse

[OniTasku]

Hahahahahahahahahaha.

Bullshit! :O

I agree with you fully NN. ^ ^

(Yea, I know I'm just completely leaving myself open for complete criticism in this thread, but oh well).

[Voynich]

Tell them? Hell no...being stabbed in the heart once is more than enough thank you =/

[Shunsui]

Seriously though, age is irrelevant. Good for you if you have a hawt girlfriend who will leave you once the alpha male walks by, but that's not at all related to love.

If you falsely love someone, then heartbreak is your own fault. If you truly love them and they truly love you back, then nothing but happiness ensues. Trust me. :amuse

[Liengod]

Seriously though, age is irrelevant. Good for you if you have a hawt girlfriend who will leave you once the alpha male walks by, but that's not at all related to love.

If you falsely love someone, then heartbreak is your own fault. If you truly love them and they truly love you back, then nothing but happiness ensues. Trust me. :amuse


Age is irrelevant. I never said it wasn't. And I never said a hot girlfriend or that a hot guy would cause whoevers girlfriend to break up with said person. Just because you think you love someone doesn't mean they will automatically love you back forever also. The word love is thrown around a lot as a teen. And happiness can go away as quick as you find it. Hopefully if you're argueing with me its because you love someone and hopefully its not someone over the internet because then I'd just laugh. I was just stating my personal opinion though, so there is no need to be extremely negative with stuff like 'bullshit' and then laugh at me. Unless you took what I said offensively which you shouldn't if you know you love someone and they love you back. Honestly though, I thought I loved someone when I was 15 and it lasted for a few years, but it ended suddenly. So, yeah just my opinion.

[Baked Crack]

If I was trying to get some ass then yes.

[Miss CCV]

If any of you loved someone would you tell them?

When I was around your age, I was the type who fell hard for a guy I dated. In that case, it was my first ex-boyfriend (Charlon). I told him that I loved him and he reciprocated. As months passed by, he "changed his mind" and told me he didn't truly love me; he assumed he had "puppy love" for me (which I finally realized until now). I thought I was truly devastated and fell into deep depression because I loved him sooo much. Things got way out of hand as a few years went by, until I finally moved on (in which my heart got broken even more by other guys I dated haha).

Then there was my second ex-boyfriend (Alex). I fell in love with him as well and I finally admitted it to him. But when I did this, he "hinted" to me that he doesn't love me back; he just had strong feelings for me. This broke my heart into a million pieces as well and it took a year for me to finally move on. I also learned more "information" why our relationship didn't work. That just made things worse on my part. This happened recently by the way.

My friends used to say how much bad luck I have in relationships LOL...

Nowadays, I'm more cautious on who I give my heart to. Actually, I don't even give a piece of my heart to any guys at the moment. I don't want to endure hell like that ever again.

[DragonHeart52]

If any of you loved someone would you tell them?
I would and I have, although only after careful consideration. As has been said earlier in this thread, my greatest concern is always what is best for him.

:laugh I find it a bit amusing about how nervous I was at the time.

Would I have said anything when I was in my teens? Probably not. I was not a "romantic type" sort of girl (I think I'm some sort of third gender: female on the outside, definitely attracted to the male, but I hate shopping and fussing over clothes, shoes, and such. Guess I was more "geek" than "girlie.") and would probably have tried avoiding the guy and hoping it would all pass. :sweatdrop

[OniTasku]

Very well said, man.

I think that when people say "Oh, they're too young to understand what love really is." Well, when I think of the definition of love, I think of something that makes you happy and can bring your spirits up when you're down in the dust. I hate to hear people saying that I'm too young to understand it, I've been through tons of situations that many will never go through by the time they die.

In the world we live in today (especially the United States), people are very age-biased. Basically, you can't really say anything without you being passed off as just an immature child who knows of nothing about the real world. I think it's a perfectly normal thing, and people should just listen to others and not immediately passed by.

[kataimiko]

This is straying somewhat from the original question, but this is in regards to all of the negative remarks:

I am a firm believe that you can love someone at the age of 15.

It's just a common misconception that all teenagers are "mixed up" and don't know love from lust. Although, it is more rare, it is very possible to be truely in love with someone at a younger age.


This reminds me of Sakura's confession of love to Sasuke right before he leaves the village.

Unrequited love sucks. :sad

[Tehol Beddict]

Ah, but you discount the arrogance of bitter wisdom through the aged experience of one that is *checks* 3 years older than yourself, zacho. His teenage love was perhaps unrequited and the only way of processing such rejection was to tell himself that it wasn't love.

Of course such a thing is foolhardy, love simply is, you can neither dismiss, discount, create, nor be good at such a thing. It is not given value through greater understanding, only knowledge of how to better deal with it, if anything at all. And even that is not always a good thing, as we see evidenced here, experience can cause one to become jaded and when that happens frivolous restrictions and labels are applied to a thing meant to be naturally free, filled with the joy of illogic and the wonder of chaos. You only limit yourself by attempting to define something with such petty labels as a bitter mind can imagine.

If that is your path, walk it if you will, but do not attempt to limit the happiness of another, your experience is not their pain, your definitions not their excuse.

There is one thing to be gleaned from his staement, or any of it's sort for that matter, as it is said quite often, though it was unintentional. That is that at such a young age your emotions have likely not been as hardened as one who was had experiences of more years, dealt with more pain [not necessarily because they are older, just because it is obvious from that particular outlook on the situation], knows what it is to love and not have it returned, or even worse, to never have loved at all. When you see the effect it has when one is not prepared to deal with the trauma this situation can cause, you realize that it can ruin your outlook on life and cause you to waste many years of your life under biased conceptions based on past pain. From seeing this sort of reaction, you must take from it the fact that while you can love, and while it is the greatest thing on the world to love and be loved, you must not commit yourself to that emotion if you are not willing to deal with the consequences of loss. I think that people often choose to overlook that very real side of the emotion and it causes so many problems in their lives and their following relationships when it bites them in the ass. It's easy to get lost in the bliss of the moment, but don't forget the existance of the past and the promise of a future just because the present didn't end in a fairy tale book. Dani said it, love isn't a movie. That is something I learned the hard way.

[kataimiko]

Of course such a thing is foolhardy, love simply is, you can neither dismiss, discount, create, nor be good at such a thing. It is not given value through greater understanding, knowledge of how to better deal with it, if anything at all. And even that is not a good thing, as we see evidenced here experience can cause one to become jaded and when that happens frivolous restrictions and labels are applied to a thing meant to be naturally free, filled with the joy of illogic and the wonder of chaos. You only limit yourself by attempting to define something something with such petty labels as a bitter mind can imagine.

If that is your path, walk it if you will, but do not attempt to limit the happiness of another, your experience is not their pain, your definitions not their excuse.


Beautifully stated. :amuse :clap

[Shunsui]

Age is irrelevant. I never said it wasn't. And I never said a hot girlfriend or that a hot guy would cause whoevers girlfriend to break up with said person. Just because you think you love someone doesn't mean they will automatically love you back forever also. The word love is thrown around a lot as a teen. And happiness can go away as quick as you find it. Hopefully if you're argueing with me its because you love someone and hopefully its not someone over the internet because then I'd just laugh. I was just stating my personal opinion though, so there is no need to be extremely negative with stuff like 'bullshit' and then laugh at me. Unless you took what I said offensively which you shouldn't if you know you love someone and they love you back. Honestly though, I thought I loved someone when I was 15 and it lasted for a few years, but it ended suddenly. So, yeah just my opinion.
Making blanket statments saying that you can't be in love when you're 15 will incite negativity, and cause me to laugh at you, moron. :amuse

[Liengod]

Making blanket statments saying that you can't be in love when you're 15 will incite negativity, and cause me to laugh at you, moron. :amuse

:blink :blink

You get defensive easily if someone has a different opinion that you. :laugh

Seriously though, you hadn't even posted and I say my opinion in which it common for other people to have the same opinion which a lot of people basically said the same as me. I on the other hand was more foreward. And you just come in and immediatly get negative and verbally attack me. That's pretty stupid if you ask me especially when I wasn't even aiming to aggrivate you since I've never seen you post anyhow.

[Tehol Beddict]

Beautifully stated. :amuse :clap

Thank ya' :amuse

I think I covered the issue sufficiently and with my usual flair for over-dramatization in my last post, zacho. It's all good, like a carousel. Up, down...and around. All good things XD

[Miss CCV]

Unrequited love sucks. :sad

I learned that first hand... :sad

[kataimiko]

I learned that first hand... :sad


I think most of us have at some point. And if not, more than likely will. :sad

[Talvius]

i would still date even if im 15 but i do know that i'll probably wont marry that girl...

Anyways yes i would tell her I love her if it doesnt affect anything(like if she is your long time best friend you dont want to lose that)

[Shunsui]

:blink :blink

You get defensive easily if someone has a different opinion that you. :laugh

Seriously though, you hadn't even posted and I say my opinion in which it common for other people to have the same opinion which a lot of people basically said the same as me. I on the other hand was more foreward. And you just come in and immediatly get negative and verbally attack me. That's pretty stupid if you ask me especially when I wasn't even aiming to aggrivate you since I've never seen you post anyhow.I don't care how many idiots share your opinion, I verbally attack morons; especially when they make blanket statements regarding something to which I am a living breathing example of the falsehood of the statement they made.

[Jordy]

I don't care how many idiots share your opinion, I verbally attack morons; especially when they make blanket statements regarding something to which I am a living breathing example of the falsehood of the statement they made.

Don't forget you feed them pwncakes while at it :laugh

[Baka-san]

Atmosk, you're wrong when you say you can't fall in love at 15. I know for a fact that I'm currently in love, there's no other possibility.

Scars, if you love someone, don't tell them without knowing they care for you. Make sure you know the other person first.

[Twizted]

I was in love at fifteen...in fact I still am in love with her. So there goes that. And yes, I'd tell.

[Kichigai Kawaru]

Wait an entire year, then if you still do, ask her out and then tell her. NEVER TELL HER ON THE SPOT!! (P.E. ;6)

[Miss CCV]

Wait an entire year, then if you still do, ask her out and then tell her. NEVER TELL HER ON THE SPOT!! (P.E. ;6)

ROFL P.E. Love confession! :P

Here's a scenario of what you're talking about:

*A 9th grade guy and a girl are standing right next to each other doing exercises (Jumping Jacks to be exact). This guy asked this girl to date him 10 minutes about and she agreed. He really "digs" her and she thinks he's really cute. I'll just use Sasuke and Sakura's names haha.*

Sasuke: Hey Sakura (while doing jumping jacks).
Sakura: Hi Sasuke (she's doing them as well).
Sasuke: Umm...(finishes his jumping jacks)...I have a confession to make.
Sakura: (she finishes as well) What is it? *confused look*
Sasuke: Well...umm...errr...I know I-I just a-a-asked y-you to b-be my g-g-g-girlfriend 10 m-minutes ago at th-the locker r-rooms...
Sakura: Uh huh...
Sasuke: I j-just...w-w-want to t-t-tell y-you...th-that...
Sakura: Yes, Sasuke?
Sasuke: I LOVE YOU!
Sakura: W-w-w-w-what...
Sasuke: S-Sakura?
Sasuke: *is very shocked to say anything else*

[Near]

I don't care how many idiots share your opinion, I verbally attack morons; especially when they make blanket statements regarding something to which I am a living breathing example of the falsehood of the statement they made.


You dont think your baised in any way, shape, or cow?

I am 22 and I dont know what true love is. Are you going to tell me my past relationships werent special? Maybe you do love that person, I mean I dont really care if you do or dont, in the end you would be only fooling yourself. either way its not really a difficult concept to understand that people would be skeptical. No need for name calling.

[cube66]

I think I'm in love, kinda, right now. But telling them this would creepy them out and hurt our friendship. It's tears me up inside to think I can never express my feelings...

:sad

[Kurairu]

Actually, I'm in ths situation right now. I wouldn't say I love this girl, but I definately have strong feelings for her. We've been good friends since grade school, second grade at least (we're in 10th grade now) and I've tried on many occasions to tell her how I feel, but it never comes out right. I really don't want to ruin our friendship and she has a boyfriend, I don't want to mess that up either. So for now I just wait.

I'd say sometimes. If it would hurt them or someone close to them, then I wouldn't say anything. Better I take the burden than someone that matters to someone else. Also, I'm not good at being flat out mean to people, I just can't do it if I know the person or not. Damned emotions, just screw everything up.

[Yume Neeban]

IMO, theres really no point to dating seriously until you're in college. After all it's inevitable that you two will break up and she'll just leech off of you until then. But, if you need to succumb to the will of your hormones, by all means do so =D.

[yummysasuke]

i dont know...depends under what circumstances...if i know that the guy i like likes me too...then i tell him....then after that if we've been going out for a while i just might say it....*shrugs* it all depends...

[Shin_Asuma]

If the feelings were neutral i would definatley tell her, but if not i don't think i would because she could turn you into a laughing stock if she doesn't feel the same. So i'd rather wait until i see signs that she feels the same, and i won't get a rejection that i will have to live down for the rest of my life. :D

[Eden Prime]

I would tell her if i loved her. I would need prep time to get courage built up, but i would eventually tell her.

[Jef88]

telling it straight in the face is not good i did it like 3 times and allways major bummer :amuse
but you will have to tell it some time
just be sure that you dont screw it up :amuse dont be to direct and you'll be fine

[princesstaco]

If you love someone, of course you tell them!

I am of the belief that love is a trial and error process.

You learn about love by finding out what it isn't. You think you love someone so you tell them. They don't love you back and painfully reject you.

'Ok. I guess that wasn't love.'

You asses the situation and try again. You get better as you go on and eventually you do begin to see what this love thing is all about.

But how will you be able to tell the difference between love and lust if you never make any attempts to let someone know you love them and see the difference first hand?

[sunANBU]

if i loved someone would i tell them...? well, i DID tell the guy i loved that i loved him in may so YUP! :laugh i just couldnt hold it in! i just HAD to tell him (partly because he graduated last year and i might've never seen him again) and even if nothing really happened (we're friends now) it was worth it because it made him happy! (and i got a hug from him :amuse ) his smile was like :laugh <- that!

[Kasumi 霞]

Truthfully I'm a coward when it comes to admitting my feelings because I'm so use to being quiet and the listener. Most of my friends would rather hear about themselves than about what I think of myself.

I don't think I have the strength to say "I love you".
I know it's really sad. =(

[monk3]

would i tell someone i love them? yeah i don't see why not.

[Sakashi]

umm... Love can get confusing. Don't get the feeling "crushes" get mixed with the feeling "Love". Ill help u define them. Crush is when u like that person alot, alot alot. You get turned on by their appearance, u get shy(some ppl) when that person is around. You try to get their attention. You want to F*** that person. Thats Crush.

Love?
Love is totally different... i know im only 15... but trust me... love hurts. Mentally. Love is when you don't have any 'crush' synptoms. Love is when u realise that u like that person for who they are, not what they are. Love is when u don't care about that person's appearance. Love is when u think about that person 24/7, dreams about that person. Love is when u daydream about ur future with that person, the happiness, a family... Love is when u are willing to do anything for that person..That, In my opinion, is love.

now, don't fall in love if u don't have to... cause if u fall in love... there is a high chance that they will break ur heart... and u will be depressed for a long time... i know i did... 1 year...

But love don't always end in pain. So hope for the best. If u love that person, tell him/her.

[Kaki]

I probably would't in high school, nothing good from it...

[JAPPO]

Sadly, my religion forbids love. Even though I make the rules... :(